Sometimes, it's nice to know that some things never change. I invariably say to myself at the beginning of this celebratory month, "Let's keep it low-key for Christmas," and I ALWAYS misjudge and/or never define what "low-key" means in the first place. What an idiot. So, it's no surprise that ten days before Santa is in his sleigh, we have had all the highs and lows of the season with Christmas pageants (for kids and even Ryan!), a few heated discussions over potential gifts, a couple of viruses, all while falling in love with our a little white tree with twinkly lights and listening to some fun new music.
Yes, some things have been more minimal in Mexico. For us, decorating wasn't as nostalgic or ceremonious as it normally is in Iowa, but reminders of the season are nearly everywhere we go. As a cold-affectionate gal, seeing the snow-capped motifs while sweating through my shirt is strange and funny. It is also unfamiliar but sincerely sweet to see such reverence from nearly all walks of life for this time of year. Because the majority of Mexicans identify as Catholic, the narrative of the Nativity, as well as The Virgin of Guadalupe, is deeply culturally pervasive.
Sure, Santa and his crew, thanks to capitalism, are around. Still, instead of giving him credit for gifts to open on the 25th, most people exchange gifts throughout the holiday season, and then mainly children receive gifts on Three Kings Day, January 6th, when the wise men allegedly first visited the baby Jesus. Of course, my kids hope to do BOTH the 25th and the 6th - ha!
We seem to be blending some of our traditions while we are eager to add some new ones. See the photos below! We've also excitedly planned to head to the beach for a few days with my folks before we return to Merida and show them around town. Sharing time, our temporary home, and festivities with them will be so lovely.
As we get closer to the sequence of special days, I have had to keep my expectations in check (per usual). My hope is, instead of worrying about if it rains while we are at the beach if so-and-so likes their gifts, or my least favorite, if my kids are too spoiled WHILE I hypocritically overindulge them, to embrace the joy and awe of this time. It also has me thinking of the importance of community. We have been whole heartedly welcomed by others here, but it never leaves our mind, nor I would argue anyone else's, that we are extranjeros. I also have gained a new perspective on our home community, of Iowa City, of our family and am reminded how gifted we are to return to it. There are far too many people in the world where "home" is terminally elusive. This year, though, I admit I miss receiving cards from friends and family (I'll open them this summer!), following Advent with First Presbyterian, and especially Christmas cookies (they are just different here).
My sis-in-law shared with me a great Advent devotional that has helped me remember that this time of year and all the expectations (some good and not so good) are all a part of the journey this side of heaven. They will follow us no matter where we are and who we are with because we are human. So, while I think about God becoming the most human thing - a screaming, crying baby to show us how to love, I will also hold the two truths at the same time that I'm so glad we are here, but I also miss being there.
Reid is mainly to the right!
Madeline is mainly to the right!
what dramatic skills!
Oh Megan,,, and team Christmas ,,, Your videos are priceless! Loved reading the write up as well. I was so impressed with your tall girl Miss M dancing the routine in perfect rhythm. And all those dance costumes were so cute and tricked out! And Reid did great as a Toy Soldier ~ again the outfit was just adorable. But Ryan takes the prize with his 80's gig and I was watching SNL as I watched his video and thought Ryan totally out did those clowns! What a great way to kick off the holidays down there! And now the Grand folks are on their way ~ bet you all will be so excited when they arrive. Merry C…